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重阳节敬老故事:爷爷的小木碗

 
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中国是文明之邦、礼仪之国,自古就有尊老爱老敬老的美德,很早就有《二十四孝》闻名于世,《三字经》“融四岁,能让梨”的故事流传已久,现转发老小子收集改编整理的两个故事,作为重阳节礼物,送给博友。

1、爷爷的小木碗:

从前有一户人家,生两个儿子,夫妻辛苦操劳了一辈子,总算把他们兄弟都养育成人而且都娶妻生子。面对年老的父母,兄弟俩和各自的媳妇商量决定,由兄弟俩分别赡养父亲和母亲,生性憨厚的老大负责体弱多病的母亲,老二鬼点子多,抢到还能劳动的父亲。

十年过去啦,妈妈由于很早就有病,已经离开了人世,父亲呢由于年龄也不能干活啦,老二家两口子看到一天天变老啥活也不能干每天还白吃饭的老头,心里的那个怨啊,实在是没有办法。

一天老头吃饭的时候,由于手抖擞,不小心把碗给打碎啦,老二的老婆连数落带骂,把老头气的一口饭也没有吃。好在有个小孙子还孝顺,偷偷的给爷爷留过一些吃的,趁他妈妈不在塞给爷爷,总算没有挨饿。

老二从地里劳动回来,媳妇把老头打碎碗的事情原原本本告诉他,他又把老头骂了半天,完了从院子里的一个老树跟砍下一段做了一个木头碗,每天吃饭的时候,就让老头用这个吃饭,碗也不每天清洗,时间久啦变的脏兮兮,只有小孙子有时候偷偷的给爷爷刷刷。

后来夫妻俩商量要把老头遗弃,决定用小平车把他拉到村子后山的沟底扔掉,第二天一大早,他们就起床,刚开始计划背着儿子,可那天偏偏儿子也早早醒来,所以他们就骗儿子说去给爷爷看病,意思是哄儿子不要跟他们去。

可从小就孝顺的儿子,哭喊着非要一起去,无奈之下两口子只好让儿子通行,他们把老头的东西都收拾好,也没有忘记带那个小木碗。

一家人拉着小平车来到沟边上,老二顺手就要往沟里倒老头,儿子哭着喊着想办法阻拦,可还是拗不过父亲,这时候他儿子说话啦   “爸爸,把那个小木碗留下吧,等将来你们老了的时候,就给你使用吧”。

听了儿子这样一句话,两口子楞住啦,车子也停在那里。还是老二家老婆反应快,她一把把车子拉回来,放平了,对坐在车子上的老头说 “爹,咱还是回家吧,今天本来就是带您出来玩玩的,你看你孙子多孝顺啊,着也是我们两口子以后的福分”。

说完,一家人原路返回。此后,两口子再也没有敢逆待老人,一直把老头伺候到死,他儿子呢,后来大考及第中举人,做一方父母官,为任期间管辖范围内孝敬父母蔚然成风,传为佳话。

《小木碗》读后感

《小木碗》这篇文章讲述的是,从前,有一位老爷爷,他的儿子和儿媳都虐待他,从不许老爷爷上桌吃饭,而且只允许老爷爷用一个小小的木碗吃饭,老爷爷总是吃不饱。

一天,老爷爷的孙子把做小木碗剩下的材料拿出来,作成了两个更小的木碗,这时他的爸爸妈妈看到了,就问:“儿子,你这是要干什么?”
“等你们老了给你们用。” 孙子回答到。
老爷爷的儿子儿媳对视了一会儿,赶快就把老爷爷接到桌上去吃饭。

孝敬老人是中华民族的传统美德,故事中老人孙子的行为让我想到了自己。

我也有爷爷,我也知道要孝敬老人这个道理,可总觉得那是长大以后的事情,现在我明白了,小孩子一样能做到孝敬老人。
以后,我要多关心照顾爷爷。
节假日,回到爷爷家,我会给爷爷倒杯水,捶捶背,或者唱首爷爷爱听的歌,让爷爷开开心心、快快乐乐的。我还会学会照顾我身边的每一位老人,用自已的实际行动去感染身边的每一个人,让孝敬老人这种美德一直传承下去。
DT:-

My sickly husband wakes up every couple of hours at nite, look for his cell phone and check if he missed any calls or text messages from his 2 daughters and 4 grandchildren that lives in Lafayette, Louisiana. He is mostly disappointed for the last 2.5 years after he was diagnose with Pancreatic Cancer. I am tired of making excuses that they are sick, busy with tv games, alcohol, spending the $ he gave them before he dies, and now he got kicked in his teeth for being kind to do all the good he have done, they don’t even make phone calls to him, excuse is: they don’t want to wake him up, why no text? Excuse: we are sick too? Busy shopping with the $ he gave them.

I can make alot of other things work for him, but i do not have the power to change their selfish ways.

I did ask our friends, in my culture, it is not acceptable when we have a dying parent to come to the house & snatch things off the walls and removed stuff from the house instead of visiting the sick parent. Creating drama instead of bringing comfort.

I think parenting is very important in every kid, spoiling them with material things and comparing love with $ kind of bringing up is just asking for heartache. Bringing up Heartless kids are painful, having to make excuses for their lies are an art. 

This is a real live story straight out of our Life’s pages. — at Lakes on Eldridge Pool.

PP: 中國人有句話 “久病床前無孝子”。所以我們要………
LC: It all boils down to One’s upbringing & the values One needs to inculcate & share with their Off-springs! If you read a story entitled: 小木碗, you will see educating our young from very early childhood is crucial.
My daughter love this story very much. Its one of the stories for lower primary students.
小木碗读后感800字
Cheers all
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Lama Lotuschef

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